All Posts, Long Distance Relationships, Relationship Advice, Self-Love

What I learned from living with my boyfriend for six months

Every night I went to sleep over the past several years, I’ve pictured variations of the same fantasy in my head. It’s embarrassingly domestic and boring of me, because I wish I had more interesting fantasies than this, and because it’s embarrassing to admit how cheesy and in love I am — but I’d imagine… Read More What I learned from living with my boyfriend for six months

All Posts, Self-Love

Being a grownup

Despite going to one of the most highly-ranked party schools on virtually every list online, I was never much of a party animal in college. My ‘going out’ phase hit me later, after I spent a year with no friends, living with my family after I graduated. Since I moved to Guam, I’ve spent almost… Read More Being a grownup

All Posts, Dating Yourself, Self-Love

My Post-Grad Experience: Abandoning the safety net of love

For months, I’ve been struggling to write a blog post about what I’ve learned since I graduated from college (15 months ago—I still can’t believe it). I came up with a draft about how I felt stagnant for months, worked in retail for half a year, and interned at a local newspaper (but didn’t get… Read More My Post-Grad Experience: Abandoning the safety net of love

All Posts, Jealousy, Relationship Advice, Self-Love

How to Deal with Instagram-related Jealousy and Insecurities

Let me just start off by saying that in my logical, reasonable mind, I trust my partner with all my heart. He’s been perfect, never makes me feel worried about the possibility of him cheating, and reassures me that he cares about me by texting me constantly throughout the day and giving me his full… Read More How to Deal with Instagram-related Jealousy and Insecurities