Recognizing your triggers in a relationship
Surprise! Your relationship problems are tied to your childhood wounds. Do you ever find yourself getting pissed off at your
Carrying the love and resilience of my grandparents
Since I’ve been back on Guam these past few years, I’ve been thinking a lot about my grandparents. I lived
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My journey with depression
Early this year, I sobbed alone in my apartment as if someone had died. I had just dropped my boyfriend
Traveling solo in Bali
About a year ago, I took my first solo trip (ever) to Bali! At the time, I was going through
How my low self-esteem is ruining my life
I’ve been going through a really low point in my self-esteem over the past week. About a week ago, I
What I learned from living with my boyfriend for six months
Every night when I went to sleep over the past several years, I’ve pictured variations of the same fantasy in
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2018 goals
At the beginning of 2017, my goal was to say yes to new things. I traveled to Bali alone (my
Taking control over my eating disorder
Getting dressed has become such an ordeal lately. I moved back to Guam with just one suitcase with all my
Being a grownup
Despite going to one of the most highly-ranked party schools on virtually every list online, I was never much of
My Post-Grad Experience: Abandoning the safety net of love
For months, I’ve been struggling to write a blog post about what I’ve learned since I graduated from college (15
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